Use everyday examples
Talk about the baby joining your family in simple terms your child can understand. Cover concrete details such as where the baby will sleep, who will be at home and which familiar moments you will keep sharing. Avoid setting expectations about feelings; excitement, curiosity and reluctance can all appear in the same conversation.
Offer small choices
Offer optional ways to join in, such as choosing a book or making a picture for the family. Do not make the older child responsible for caregiving. Consider short moments of individual time with them in the new routine and allow the plan to change in real life.
Your next little step
Choose one idea that suits your family and try it at your own pace. Every family has different needs.